Come see our latest recipes to help bring some yummy flavors to your Candlemas celebration. You will also find links to other folks who will inspire you to be creative and celebrate! Enjoy and thank you for stopping by!
~ breathing, wandering, celebrating, homeschooling, creating, playing, growing, loving, being ~
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
Monday, January 30, 2012
New Post on DO
In preparation of what lies ahead our posts this week will focus on how we can prepare our homes and hearts to celebrate and allow the Light in. We will focus on and offer suggestions for a good spring cleaning, lantern making, candle making, art projects, planting seeds/sprouts, and recipes that will help make this Candlemas a week long preparation and celebration! So to start......let's get cleaning!
There's also a little incentive to get you cleaning........I'll leave a little hint!
Sunday, January 29, 2012
{ this moment }
{this moment} - A Sunday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
If you're inspired to do the same, leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.
inspired by Amanda Blake Soule
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Friday, January 27, 2012
New Post on HEAR
Come take a gander at our newest post on HEAR! You'll get a glimpse of how we're accepting more of the Dragon into our lives as well as a super, special surprise that has come to life within our creative world!
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Playtime
Playtime is a gift that many children in today's over worked, over booked, over teched society, don't even get to experience anymore. Between preschools or day cares at such a young age with toys that take away any notion of imagination, kindergartens that push to write, read, and understand math concepts first over understanding the world around them and how it works. Then the lower grades that have almost zero time for free play. By the time our children reach the age of 10 they may have almost forgotten what it means to have an imagination, to play by themselves without an iPOD, a laptop, or another hand held electronic device. When I was a child, by the age of 10 I was still playing with toys, rode my bike, went for walks in the woods, with or without friends. I didn't have a cell phone, a computer, or any other portable gaming device. It was me, with a book, a friend, a notebook, some crayons, a swing set! We did have television and my sister had a Nintendo (which I played when she let me but not everyday and certainly not all day). Regardless, most of my childhood memories are me sitting amongst the trees, making forts and pretending; this is what I strive to give back to my children.
Now that I am a mother to four (with another on the way) it has become so important to our family to 'take back' what it means to be a child. We don't have cable, we don't have any hand held gaming devices or ones that hook up to the television, no iPODs. We do allow the two older children (ages 10 and 12) an hour a week on the computer and they do have an MP3 player (which I attribute to the modern Walkman which I had as a pre-teen) that they are allowed to listen to when they are in their rooms only (which is hardly ever because we're so busy being together as a family). We struggle to accept talking and music making toys for our little ones, we try to intimate what types of toys we'd like sometimes with great success sometimes not. The toys the little ones do have are ones that will allow them to pretend, to imagine, to create their world in the physical form; animal figures, doll house, costumes, art supplies, cars/trucks, blocks, and lots of books, soft baby dolls and musical instruments. We keep our dining room table free from clutter (as much as possible ;o) ) to allow for any crafting, coloring, painting, or baking that may take place at any given moment. We strive to keep our children's environment stress free and simple to allow the creativity to flow, to allow their genuine selves to shine through and create the vision that their imagination sees.
In today's society, it is hard to not fall prey to wanting your child to keep up with the times, to have the same things that their peers have so they don't feel left out. Sometimes our older two feel very left out and wish for the things their friends have. As their parents, we do our best to show them that it's never a good idea to compare ourselves to someone else, and in the end, it's our bond as a family, it's our ability to laugh together, play together, and have fun together that reminds them that if they did have all that other stuff.......we wouldn't be the family that we are. By not allowing our kids to plug in and knowing in our hearts that their 'play time' is the most important gift we could give them, we've invested in our family as a whole. That simple choice means that we have chosen our family over 'keeping up with the Joneses'.
As parenting our children becomes more difficult with each day, I ask you this.......how do you allow your children to just be? To be with themselves (not plugged in), to be with their friends (again, not plugged in), to be with you (dare I say it, not plugged in)? If you're lifestyle is one that supports iPODs, gaming devices, loads of plugged in time, I would ask that you think about how those choices might have affected your relationships with your children. Do you still spend a good amount of quality time together? Do you talk, play, or interact with each other outside of a video game or text? How could you limit their screen time and reinvest that time inward to allow for free play and downtime together?
At the end of the day, these are each simple lifestyle choices. In the end, one needs to chose what type of living works best for them, based on actual life experiences. My hope is that by providing a window into the alternate choice, one might be inspired to look at how their child exists in their own playtime and implement a change for the better........for the child and the family as a whole.
*For ideas and inspiration on interacting with your child more fully and helping them to discover that life isn't just about being plugged in, check It's a Simple Life's blog roll. These are lovely people choosing to live a very connected life simply because they now that in the blink of an eye, their children will be grown and that precious time they are given them will have shifted into something else. Savor your time with your children, hold them close, smell them when they are near, look them in the eye. Hold their tender heart in your hands and remember that they are only yours to experience fully for a short time.*
Monday, January 23, 2012
New Post on FEEL
Head on over to FEEL to see how we've begun our celebration of the Chinese New Year and the welcoming of the Dragon. How are you welcoming and honoring the Dragon in your life? Share your thoughts with us and how you're celebrations will unfold. Happy New Year!!!
"Reach high, for stars lie hidden within your soul. Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal." ~ Ralph Vaull Starr
Friday, January 20, 2012
New Post on TASTE
Here it is!
Make it! Enjoy it! Let the children help!
Make toast, make french toast, or eat it warm out of the oven. Whatever you do let us know what you think!
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